I don’t like divorce at all. I believe many people just don’t know the real importance of marriage even before their planning of the wedding. To see them wed and later divorce is just as disgusting as a dog that vomits food it thinks was “nice stuff taken in.”

Whether you’re contemplating on having divorce or not, the following words will help you one way or another.

Divorce ends your marriage. Marriage is something you should build on a strong foundation, and true enough, every married person has invested so much wealth of whatever kind. In fact, divorce belittles the biggest investments in the marriage–the couple themselves.

Divorce costs money. Fees for filing, attorney’s fees, property’s to be lost and the financial adjustments you have to make after divorce are things you have to contend with if you’re on your way. If you’re in the process already or has been divorced, you have probably realized this truth.

Divorce hurts. If you divorce, chances are you cannot adequately describe the deep, searing, pain that comes from tearing a relationship at the same time that you adapt to the many other changes in your life that often flow from divorce. During divorce, you will likely feel things, think things, say things, and do things that you would never feel, think, say, or do during any other time of your life.

Divorce changes personal relationships. Aside from the obvious change in your relationship with your spouse and members of your spouse’s family, divorce often means changes in your relationships with other people as well. Some of the people you have considered friends for years may now view you as wrong or evil. Also, we know from research that divorced people themselves tend to change their relationships. They tend to spend less time with their married friends and more time with other single people, primarily divorced people.

Divorce hurts children. Children of divorced parents are more likely than other children to suffer one or more of several difficulties, including depression, delinquency, low school performance, and social problems. Divorce isn’t just a short-term crisis for children. It’s a long-term threat to their academic performance, their ability to commit to relationships, and their mental health.

In short, it’s not worth it. If you’re not yet married, make sure you marry someone you will not divorce. If you are married and are contemplating divorce, realize these disadvantages before you make a lifetime of regret.